If any children does not get success or they does not perform well in their academics.,we generally think that there is some lack of concentraion,focus, or interest in child..and due to this parents put more stress and pressure to the child. So not only in children but something lacks with parents also.
So firstly parents counselling is also.required, the way they expect to their children is totally wrong.
The first thing that parents usually used to say to.their children,see mr.sharma's son he became an engineer,..see mr gupta's son.he is so.good in.academics..and u r sitting idle in.home that creates negativity in children.
if we do.not allow our children to choose their career then.how do.we expect that they will get success,
Usually from.childhood we get some signals that in which field they are good or interested.
so let them choose their own career and you will see they will definitely get success.
Now here comes, second point, we used to example that we all have a child inside our heart, we should live like a kid, how stress free they are. But happened now.
We are putting stress of our own expectations and desires on to these kids.
now when we talk with kids, we found that they are pressurized by their parents to study and focus on academics, no extra activity, no sports just a stressed and hectic schedule. They lost their happiness and kiddish activities. Earlier we used to call them stress buster, we love to play with them, their outdoor activities, their fun and masti. but all went away under pressure.
lack of these activities stopping their mental growth. I really don't support home tuitions. they re just status symbols for families. Students are not practicing self studies. They even won't get time for themselves.
School activity , tuition activity and then school work. They are pissed up in this schedule. No time for relaxation and refreshment. No outdoor activity as well.
If they get little bit time then they used to watch TV or play video games, that's it.
Parents need to focus and give some time to their kids and children. It will help and boost their confidence level. Treat them as a friend, not a factory of expectations. They should be involved in their studies as well. Try to teach them and help them in studies.
students need personal attention instead of professional attention of Tutors. i agree sometimes tutor are necessary but we should not be dependent on tutors.
Involve them in physical activities, outdoor games.Motivate them for stress free life. Don't force them for marks, boost them for good performance and to gain knowledge. Try to identify their capabilities and choose their career accordingly, and then see how the chlidren are being developed, sharp and intelligent.